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Jody's avatar

Such a compelling thought. I remember my first times as a teen seeing French, Swedish and Italian films. I felt jarred and even a bit deceived when the story arcs weren’t wrapped up at the end in happy Hollywood bows. The Europeans demanded more reflection. I didn’t like it. I wanted my dopamine kick! After decades of living, Hollywood endings seem rote and simplistic. I admire complexity, subtlety and messiness. But I never considered till now that happy endings send messages of shame. 😔

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<Mary L. Tabor>'s avatar

My answer: both and this because your quote is so on point: The fear of grief tales strikes me as a weakness as if we, especially in Western culture don't seem able to discuss the power, the importance of grief and of being there for those who are lost, have lost someone, need us more than ever.

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